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Hi Oloni, my boyfriend never wants to take pictures with me and it really bothers me to the extent that I think he doesn’t find me attractive. He does however take pictures with other people and doesn’t complain when they post it on social media sites such as facebook. I’m literally at my wits end and have no idea how i should handle the situation.
8. June 2015
Don’t go crazy over something you can discuss with him. Some people are private when it comes to relationships in comparison to friendships.
so I talk to this guy for about a good seven months and we don’t talk as much now because it’s the summer & we’re both working. We’re not in a relationship, but we have had intercourse. The problem is when I ask him if he wants a relationship, he told me no, but the way I can makes him want to be with me. But then if, I talk to other guys and hang out with other guus, he gets mad & somewhat jealous. I like him, but I don’t want to wait around for him to see what is in front of him, but If I start talking
8. June 2015
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I’m seeing this guy but his exes and other female friends are too involved in his life; one even has a tattoo of his name on her boob. He knows they care about him and he uses it to get them to do him massive favours. I’m not comfortable with it as they have ulterior motives but at the same time i don’t want to tell him how to live his life. What should I do ?
8. June 2015
You can’t tell him how to live his life and this just sounds like a bunch of red flags you’re trying to ignore.
Hi Oloni, so i really need some advice with this. So ive recently been “talking” to this guy and his seems lovely and knows how to make me smile but the thing is a while ago (last year) my ex broke my heart and it just put me in a dark place. you can kinda say i lost myself. nd because of that i had a one night stand with a guy. I totally regret THIS!. But now ive found out that the guy im seein and the guy i slept with have become quite close friends. Im scared that if the guy im seein finds out what happend then he wont want to progress further with me. Also recently the guy i had a one night with has been making cheeky remarks about happened in front of people, his also being acting very bitter bcoz his asked me to sleep with him again but ive said NO countless times. Now i feel his makin these remarks to get back at me. Im just scared that he will tell tje
8. June 2015
If its bothering then you have to tell him, it’s really up to him to decide how he treats the information. You haven’t done anything wrong, especially as it’s not like you purposely went out of you way to sleep with a person he’d eventually become close to. As for the guy who keeps making rude remarks, you need to distance yourself from him if he can’t listen to your requests. I hope things work out.
I was seeing a guy from November to May, he told me he had sex with 3 other people while we were together… I’m scared that because of his wreckless choices I could have a STI and not know, what should I do ?
8. June 2015
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