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Hi, basically my little sister is 14 going out with a boy that’s 17. That’s always made me feel uncomfortable but now I know that they’re having ALOT of sex and they’ve only been going out for six months. Me and her are very close but i’ve always told her to wait until she’s older. I’m 16& i’m still a virgin. I feel like hes taking asvantage of her. What should i do? She loves him too much to stop 4. May 2015

You need to tell your parents asap. A 14 year old has no business with a 17 yo and SHOULD not be involved in any sort of sexual intercourse.

Is it wrong to go through your BF phone to gut feelings and instincts that he’s doing something he’s not meant to be doing 4. May 2015

Sadly our guts do not pay their bills. If you feel a way be straight and ask.

What do you do in terms of relationship coaching? 4. May 2015

I help maximise the potential of your love life. For more details email me 🙂

My predicament is long but I’ll cut it short. In love with a stubborn girl who’s not interested (she might be) while there’s girls who keep sending me stuff (messages, pics) but I’ve ignored them, even tho I’m horny as f^$k, because I feel it’s right. I really need some rough passionate sex in my life right now but more importantly I need a companion/partner. Any advice? 4. May 2015

The only advice I can offer is that if you want a partner, you’re going to have to find wats to meet new women!

me and my gf were going good and we love each other etc but recently I feel like I need some time off, or a break but I dont want to say it to her cos I might hurt her feelings. any advice? 4. May 2015

You talk to her about whats making you feel this way, relationships don’t include breaks. So speak & open up about whats really bothering you.

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