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So there is this guy that I’ve known for 2 years, and we fell out of contact when he started college. That summer before we were really into each other, so I felt that we felt the same way about each other. Last week, I saw him at a family friend’s party, and we immediately clicked like the way we were before. I thought he was interested in me by the way he flirted with me nonstop. We started texting again, and he is so dry. I’m not sure if he just doesn’t like texting or he’s just not into me. 18. May 2015

Pick up the phone. The spark you feel over talking will not resemble the one whereby you’re texting.

Hey girl, Let me start off by letting you know how much I loved 100 questions and I can’t wait for your next project!! Okay, so here goes, I’m 24 & I’ve been speaking to a guy for about a year and recently he wanted to make things “official” and I agreed. We had sex for the first time a few days ago. Now the key part to this story is that I like to wear push-up bras as regular bras don’t do my boobs any justice because my boobs are droopy. The same night we had sex he stated how “annoyed” he was and that how he felt “deceived” because that’s not how he expected my boobs to look. He told me his attraction to me is gone :/ and he’s been acting strange ever since. now I’ve never had this kind of reaction from a guy so I don’t know how to feel. I mean I’m insecure about my boobs as it is, I wish they were perky but I’ve accepted they aren’t. I don’t know if I’m supposed to “give him space” as its only been a few days. What do I do? I know it’s a weird situation… Is it possible that you make this a qotd because maybe someone else has been in a similar situation, it could help to know what they did ? Thankyou ever so much for your help xx 18. May 2015

Thanks for getting the book. For me this is an easy one, drop him. Drop him fast and drop him now. The comments he made were highly insensitive, even if he thought that, there are some things you just do not pour out. So you wear a push up bra? At east 70% (don’t quote me, I’ve just worked in lingerie) have paddings or some sort of boost. This is how women feel more confident about themselves. If he doesn’t like it, that’s fine, he doesn’t own your body.  I will make this a #qotd later tonight and please do not stop wearing your push up bras. A lot of women feel insecure about the way they look and do whatever it is to make themselves feel and look better Don’t let one idiot get to you.

Don’t you think being a girlfriend fluffier is kind of inevitable though? 18. May 2015


My boyfriend recently told ME that he allows his female friends to come to his house, I don’t know if I’m overreacting but from what I know if they do come they would be in his room with just his bed and a TV… I feel like as he’s in a relationship social places should be where he’s meeting up with them and that. I don’t know if I’m being petty but my morals are different I wouldn’t go and chill at a boys house with just me and him. Am I overracting and being Petty? 18. May 2015

It really does depend on the nature of the friendship. Do you know the girl? How often does it happen? If it is bothering you, then speak up. Ask him how he’d feel if it were the other way around. Your morals are clearly different, so to make sure you’re on the same page you have to communicate this to him.

I was seeing this guy last year, we had sex a few times and I cut off any guys I spoke to because I caught feelings but then we stopped speaking (he told me it was because of his uni work). I recently started talking to another guy and we have had sex however the other guy has come back into the picture. I don’t know what to do because even though he hurt me by not speaking to me I really did like him and I’m just getting to know the other guy. Help me out what should I do? 18. May 2015

You’re allowing people do become priority when you’re not exclusive to any of these guys. Stop talking to the old guy, that seems like it was just sex and fun for him.

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