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I was on a double date with my friend and her man and ironically the chemistry between me and her man was stronger between me and him than with me and my bf. This double date was supposed to spice things up but it just turned me off my bf. My friend advised me her bf enjoyed it and wants to do it again and I find myself more excited about the fact I get to see her man again. Do I talk to my friend? Or suppress the feeling and focus on my man (who I genuinely adore, things have just been stale lately cos he’s grieving over a relative)
15. June 2015
You’re lusting over someone elses boyfriend. Cancel the date, it’s one thing to enjoy socialising with other couples it’s another when you’re counting down the days to see him especially when you have a partner. I don’t think it’s a good idea. If you and your boyfriend have you’re own issues solve them.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few years now. For long time, we’ve been having intimacy issues, he’s lazy and doesn’t want sex as much as I do. I’ve asked people what I should do and most people say that I want it too often and that’s probably the problem but I get very angry when I don’t have it. Long story short, I cheated on my boyfriend out of anger and then found out I was pregnant about a month later. I’m pretty positive that the baby belongs to my boyfriend because the other guy wore a condom and didn’t even ejaculate because I told him to stop. Basically, I’m starting to feel bad and I’m not sure if I should tell my boyfriend or not.
15. June 2015
You have to tell him you cheated. If you weren’t being sexually satisfied you should have said something instead of going elsewhere. That’s not how a rationship works. If you are definitley pregnant take a DNA test despite who you think might be the father.
I dated a guy around two years ago, and we recently became friends…he refuses to go out publicly with me as he says he’s embarrassed to be seen with his ex, should I bother being friends with him?
15. June 2015
Please let this ‘friendship’ go. This clearly isn’t working.
I’ve been seeing this guy I met online 4 months ago and he said he wasn’t looking for a relationship, but recently he told me he likes me and wants to get to know me and it isn’t just about sex. I have trouble believing that he actually likes me and doesn’t want to fuck and leave especially since I’m a virgin
15. June 2015
He’s a liar. Keep it moving.
HELP! my friendaccidentally told me my boyf plans to propose on my bday which is In 2 weeks. I love my boyf but I DON’T wanna be married or engaged right now (I’m only 21,, he’s 23). I’m afraid he may have something crazy planned and I don’t wanna let him down what do I do?!?! I discussed with him earnestly throughout our relationship that I don’t wanna be married until at least 24 but he must think I was being coy or modest :/
15. June 2015
You tell him what you foud out & remind him on what age you said you’d be ready. It’s better to do it asap, before he plans something in front of family and friends. It’ll be a hard pill for him to swallow, but it’s better than pretending.
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