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Hey Oloni, I’m Bisexual and in have a male bestfriend and I kind of have feelings for hi it’s really weird because he’s a ‘ladies man’ so to speak it when I’m with him we cuddle and all that cheesy romantic stuff told him a year ago about my feelings and he was strangely fine about it but ever since then we’ve gotten closer than before and he sends me saucy photos which confuses me even more and it’s confusing me to a whole level but I’m slightly nervous about seeing him again because I don’t know what might happen between us because I dont think I can hide my feelings anymore but on the other hand I don’t want anything to happen because it might mess him about what should I do? 16. June 2015

Do you feel anything can come out of you both taking it to another level? You’ve moved past being platonic, but you need to have a conversation about it again so no one is sending mixed signals.


I’ve been going steady with my boyf for 3 months but we haven’t had sex yet. Crazy enough tho I was on his phone and I saw a NUDE OF ME which I did not send to him! I know it’s me because of the nipple piercing and tattoo on my rib. Im freaked out cos I never sent this to him. I know nudes get around but I sent this pic to my closest girl and I know she’d never snake me like that. Plus she doesn’t know my man. And what’s crazy is dat I checked the day the pic was saved ans it was saved on the same day as he dmd me on insta. I’m proper baffled help me, can u make this QOTD I 16. June 2015

That’s so scary. Ask him about then honestly cut.


Hi Oloni, I asked earlier about the guy that sent the unwanted gift…. A couple of my girls reckon I shouldn’t return the gift, however I find it borderline psychotic that someone would send a present like that. They reckon I’m exaggerating. What do you think? 16. June 2015

If you don’t want them say thank you & return it.


I am a young female who never really used to talk to males before however over the recent months, I’ve had quite a few guys interested in me. The only problem is that all of them are guys who I have no real interest in, most probably because of the fact that I just assume that they all just want one thing from me. Sex. As I am a virgin, a lot of the guys I’ve ‘been with’ have made it seem as if my virginity is a challenge or obstacle to overcome. I don’t want to become one of those girls who believe “All guys are the same” and how they all want sex, as I feel like I may potentially lose out on something good because of this way of thinking. Am I just being silly? Should I allow myself to be more open with these guys? Thanks in advance. 16. June 2015

Get to know these guys more! There’s no doubt that a majority of guys are after sex, but there are still plenty who want something meaningful. Try to date some guys and don’t let the focus be about sex, enjoy the early stages.. Sometimes it’s the best.


Hey.. Was wandering if you could help me out a tad. Around a month ago i got in touch with my ex. More recently we decided to try again. She asked me since we have been apart if I had been with anyone else. I told her I had slept with one other person. To this she responded that it means I never loved her as I wouldn’t have been able to go through with it (sleeping with the other girl) I’m telling her this is completely false and that with the other girl its just sex with no feelings but i do love her. She says this is impossible. I am certain that if this was the other way around that I as the man would be accused of slut shaming a woman. How can I get around this? 16. June 2015

You’d only be accused of slut shaming if you slut shamed. She just sounds hurt, but if we look at this logically what you do individually when you’re not together has nothing to do with either of you. You weren’t together. If she can’t handle the truth you’ve given then you have to give her, her space till she’s ready to come around.


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