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Hi, I have been going out with a guy for almost two years now but he has become so friend oriented, always playing FIFA with his friends, always going to chill with them. Basically spending most of his time with his friends. 90% of the time that I go to his house he will leave me to be with his friends yet i’m still here. I’m thinking to just end it because I deserve better! Am I overreacting? Bare in mind he was NEVER like this. What do you think I should do? All opinions are welcome. 18. June 2015

This would put any woman off. Talk to him about it, let him know unacceptable you find it and give him a chance to change things.


Do you think Tinder is a good place to meet and talk to guys? A lot of people see it as a hook up site and that’s not really what I’m looking for. If not what else would you recommend (that’s free please lol) 18. June 2015

Tinder is good, but don’t use one, use them all. Any site/app can be used for hook ups.


Me and this guy have so much history together, he got me pregnant a couple of years ago but I got rid of it because he went to jail for 3 1/2 years. When he came out of jail we slept together now I find out the girl he cheated on me with is pregnant with his baby (she’s going to drop soon) meaning he had unprotected sex with me knowing she was pregnant. Should I tell her? If I tell her would that make me bitter? 18. June 2015

Stay out of it.


Hey Oloni, I was with my ex on and off for about 2 years. Things didn’t work out due to constant cheating and a lack of trust..mostly on his part. Since we broke up in September we’ve slept together several times. It’s hard because deep down I still love him but I don’t want to just have a physical relationship with him. He reassures me that he still cares about me and always thinks of me but he just can’t commit at the moment. I know I should move on and just let him go but like I said I love him, but also I just can’t imagine being physical with anyone else. Every time I try and remove him from my life he finds a way back in. What can I do to get rid of him once and for all? Thanks 18. June 2015

You can’t imagine being physical with anyone else because it’s soon and you’re not ready. It’s also because you’re still messing with the past. Neither of you are giving each other the space you both deserve to move on. You’re sleeping with someone you had a rocky relationship with. Not a good idea. Try the no contact rule and keep yourself busy. Learn from this relationship, so you’ll be ready for dating in a few months.


Hey Oloni, I’ve been with my bf for a coule of years and we have kids, we both work and barely have time to spend time together. My problem is that he has a higher sex drive than me and gets quite upset about the lack of sex we have. By the time i see him in the evenings im so exhasuted and ready for bed im not in the mood. But generally i feel like my sex drive has dissapeared. how can i improve things and get it back? I love him and the sex is great once we get going, its just the getting there is so hard because I work longer hours than him and I do a lot more than him with the kids, home etc so im just constantly exhausted. I feel like our relationship is suffering. 18. June 2015

What you don’t want is to be in a sexless relationship. So although this suggestion might sound bizarre give it a go. Scheduling sex. A lot of couples do it, especially when they have different free times. Pick at least two-three days of the week which work for you both where you can both relax and enjoy a night of pleasure. If you have to put the kids to bed earlier than usual and crack open a bottle of wine, do so. You having a lower libido is very common amongst women, sometimes we’re up for it & sometimes our sex drive just doesn’t exist. There are ways around it, what turns you on? What makes you feel incredibly sexy?


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