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Last year I met this guy on my way home from work, he was driving pass and he asked for my number and I gave it to him. Within days of meeting we had sex. Prior to this he really was feeling me and always messaged me. After we had sex I decided not to message him only because I wanted to see whether this was a one night stand. We both managed to not message each other for a week after our first time sleeping together. Then I gave in and asked him whether he was ok. Thats when the drama started, he was like oh so because I gave your pussy too much love you didn’t get in contact. Oloni, he didn’t contact me either. Anyways I cussed him good, I couldn’t help myself I went in, I later regretted it but it was too late he blocked me on WhatsApp and I couldn’t call or text him. Months after I tried getting in contact by calling him on private number to apologise but he didn’t wanna know. The weird thing is I always see him drive pass me, he will follow me and make it really obvious like drive real slow. Ok 9 months later he walks past me and I didn’t look but I could feel him proper looking at me. Moments later I received a text from him saying you looked nice xx This was after 9 months of being blocked. Oloni, my pray had been answered, I was so excited and I messaged him saying thank you xx. Anyways cutting the story short, he has unblocked me from WhatsApp but when I message him he reads it but ignores it. Like wtf. He never replies, but when he sees me in the street he won’t holla at me but message me to say how hot I look. Whats his game??
20. June 2015
Why do you care what his game is? Move on. The dude is a joke.
Will there be any gay men at your event?
20. June 2015
This event is for straight people, but hopefully in the future that can happen.
Hi oloni my boyfriend messaged you saying I’m emotional and moody. Let’s put it this way he has cheated on me and I gave him another chance he then went back to the same girl after we had a break and this really fucked me up because I was willing to make it work. Now I complain because I don’t trust him, he needs to understand that I had got to a point where I was getting over things then I found out when we got back together from the break he had been speaking to the girl he cheated with all along. After this I just cba he wasn’t there for me when I had a miscarriage , he ignores me he never compromised when I tell him where I think he is going wrong like not giving me attention and making time as we both work he doesn’t want to hear it. He calls me a devil and said he hates the way I’ve become and one thing I hate the most is that he never ever listens to a single thing that I say he just twists it onto me and makes it seem like I’m a nag.
19. June 2015
Thanks for coming to share your side. This seems like you BOTH need to let this go. You’re both unhappy and have been through quite a lot. Why are you both still together? You don’t owe each other anything. If you’re both miserable what reason do you have to still call what you have a relationship?
I need some help. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. Whenever we have sex he doesn’t really make me cum, but the sex is so good. Like on another level good. I can count on my hand how many times. I feel as though I’m really affecting his masculinity. I just want to make him feel good. Make him feel like a man. We’re in a really amazing place. Although, we have been through certain things which have been really emotionally damaging on me. I’m starting to think that this might be it? Maybe there’s a disconnect there? Or maybe something is wrong with me? I’ve only slept with 2 guys including him… So maybe I haven’t had enough experience? I’m not sure. Bearing in mind, I’m only 19 and he’s 23 if that makes a difference.
19. June 2015
Calm down love! Great sex doesn’t mean orgasms, so stop worrying and relax. Many guys aren’t aware but not all women climax during sex. It doesn’t mean the sex is rubbish or poor. We just have this false misconception I really wish we were taught about during sex education in school. Try new things and positions to keep your sex life steamy, you’ll be fine.
When do you know the time right is right to introduce your boyfriend to your mum? And what would the best way be to do so
19. June 2015
When you’re ready and comfortable. I think a brief meeting would be good first. So suggest he comes to the house to pick you up for a date for example if your parents are in introduce them. Simple.
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