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Hi Oloni. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We are so in love and everything is going great. He’s introduced me to practically his whole family and I’ve made him sorta familiar with mine. I live with both parents but he has only met my mum (I’m much closer with her), I’m scared for him to meet my dad as I don’t know how my dad will react. We never speak about boys or relationships altogether so this would be all new to him. My bf is starting to think I’m not as serious about him due to him not seeing my dad, I’ve explained but he just says that were grown and I shouldn’t be scared. I’m 21 and he’s 24 so yeah we’re grown I suppose but I just don’t know how to approach this to my dad. Can you help me?
29. June 2015
Sit your dad down and have a conversation. Let him know that there is someone important, you’d like him to meet. Carry on from there.
Hi. If a guy you’re seeing won’t come out and tell people he’s seeing you does that mean he’s embarrassed of you? What possible reason could a guy who says he cares and ‘loves’ me have for not telling his friends, people I’m acquainted with, that we’re together, baring in mind it’s been over 8 months, surely he can’t be lying about his feelings especially if he talks about a future with me. Can you ask this on the TL so I can see opinions of other guys please. I just want to know if I’m being lead on. Thank x
29. June 2015
If you’re seeing each other it’s not that important to let people know, till it transforms into an exclusive relationship.
But of a weird question but, I’ve realised that my boyfriends breath kind of smells. I don’t want to tell because I feel like it’ll hurt his feelings but what should I do? Because it puts me off when I have sex with him
29. June 2015
Couples should be able to tell each other things like this without feeling uncomfortable. Just be straight forward and tell him. I doubt he’ll get upset.
Hey Oloni I’ve been seeing this boy exclusively for a few months now (8to be precise) he has a lot of female friend which I was aware of rior
29. June 2015
Tell him if it makes you uncomfortable, but don’t expect him to change completely. If you don’t like it perhaps you need to think about the nature of the relationship.
Hey Oloni, I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, but I feel like I’m putting more effort than him financially, I know it’s not all about money & stuff but I’ll use my last 20 just to make sure he’s okay or happy where as when he gets money he’ll rather go out with friends. He hasn’t taken me out in ages, if we do I know I’m paying. I’ve done so much for him financially it’s ridiculous. I don’t know if I’m just thinking bout financial benefits or if this is an actual issue. But besides that he shows me affection & does make me happy. How do I go about changing things
29. June 2015
Talk about how this makes you feel by addressing what you’ve noticed. You have a right to want to feel appreciated through kind gestures from time to time, that’s part of what it means to be in a relationship. You’re also not his wife so stop handling his financial hardship, that isn’t your job as a girlfriend.
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