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Oloni. I recently found out through one of my boyfriends mistresses that he cheated on me and got her pregnant. When I confronted him he confessed he had gotten another girl pregnant as well and I don’t know what to do. I love him and we had a very public relationship in regards to pics on insta/twitter/Facebook. He’s a few years older than me and my first real love. As none of the girls are currently pregnant am I right in staying and praying through it?
19. July 2015
It sounds lie you’re staying for all the wrong reasons. He knocked someone up, he cheated, he was disloyal. You shouldn’t want anything to do with him.
Hi Oloni, how do I tell my boyfriend that his breath smells? This is a genuine question. I really care about him and it’s not all the time, but quite frequently and I know it’s quite sensitive, so how do you think I should go about it please?
14. July 2015
Couples should be able to tell each other when something is off. Let him now in a caring and compassionate way.
Hey oloni, I’ve been working as a bartender for 8 months now, at the start there was this one security guard who always would say hey to me. Then after he started dropping me home after work, then he started giving me money, buying me things, telling me that he loves me so much. And he’s been telling people at work how much he loves me and he wants to be with me. I don’t love him and I feel so bad because I though I would love him someday but I can’t, so in this situation what should i do? I don’t want him feeling like I’ve been using him.
14. July 2015
You explain to him that you’re no longer interested and move on.
I have stretch marks and this makes me feel really uncomfortable to even have sex with my bf,what should I do? What if he’s disgusted by them?
14. July 2015
A high percentage of women have stretch marks, you’re insecure about being normal. You should always have sex with someone you feel comfortable about, so have a conversation with him about it.
Hi Oloni, it’s the girl in the QOTD’15year old sleeping with 22year old. After reading all of the replies on the tl, I feel like I need to elaborate more and sort of explain myself. I ended the relationship myself because I knew it was wrong after a while. I guess it just felt nice having an older boyfriend who would pick me up from school in his car (although he made me tell everyone he was an older friend) he made me lie to all my friends, telling me they would be jealous if they found out. It’s like after a while I just woke up and realised it was wrong. I used to cry myself to sleep thinking that I was dirty, a slag and a whore. I wanted to go to the police or my family, but thought that people would not believe me, as he is a very persuasive person. My friends found out when I was 17 and been pushing ever since, even saying they would report it themselves, but didn’t after I begged them not too. My family do not know to this day and I don’t want them to find out, because I feel ashamed and dirty, and I am scared they won’t believe me. For this reason, I have decided not to go to the police. Thank you for your advice.
14. July 2015
Thanks for coming back to explain. He clearly took advantage and manipulated you. Your friends however shouldn’t be pressuring you or taking it into their own hands. Whilst I understand their concern for their friend, it’s not their place.
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