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I have been dating a guy for 10 months and he hasn’t said anything about what we are. I’m not sure if we are in a relationship but I don’t want to ask “are we in a relationship?” But he doesn’t tell his friends about me and says to girls he’s seeing someone but that’s all and expects me to act like his girlfriend. Am I silly ? What should I do?
19. July 2015
Bring it up. 10 months is quite a lengthy and reasonable time, so you can ask what the status of your relationship is. And don’t act like his girlfriend if you’re not, that’s how some men get comfortable and see no reason to take things to the net level. If he wants you to act one way, he’ll make it that way.
What if you don’t want your questions on social media platforms? Is there a way we can email you directly?
19. July 2015
I only take private e-mails and now phone calls from those who I’m relationship coaching. You can always get more info about it there itsoloni@gmail.com
Hi Dami. First off, congrats on all of your success so far. You’re really doing some big things and I see great things on the future for you. My problem is this, I’m 22 and have been speaking/messaging this boy for about 5 months now but we haven’t met yet. Our talk is always sexual but recently we haven’t been talking as much as before. I have the feeling we both want to meet each other probs for sex which I am up for, but the problem is I’m really not confident with my body and not sure if I can do it no matter how much I want to. Is there any advice you could give me. Please don’t put this on the tl as well thanks.
19. July 2015
If you’re just interested in the physical then try to boost your confidence by getting lingerie that makes you feel comfortable in the moment. I’ve worked in two of the most popular lingerie outlets in the UK and have spoken to women who admit it makes them feel more confident as they can be quite insecure. Do remember to talk about contraception and make sure if the times comes and you don’t feel up for it, you don’t have to do anything. Only have sex when you feel at ease to.
Webnair prices are abit much considering your just talking to a webcam for an hour no offense just wondering
19. July 2015
But when I’ve answered over 5,000 dilemmas and speak to women for free solving their dilemmas that’s not ‘abit much’. You don’t have to get a spot if you don’t want to. You know that right?
Hi Oloni. To cut a long story short me and a friend of mine like the same guy, she doesn’t know I like him but I knew she liked him from last year and I thought she was over it. Recently she brought it up and I was like “damn she still likes him wtf am I gonna do”. He’s a really sweet boy and we all go to the same college. This girl isn’t a close friend of mine but I feel like persuing him would be crissing some sort of line. Any advise would be great. X
19. July 2015
You have to think about it and ask yourself if it’s honestly worth it.
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