Ask me sex and relationship questions here anonymously. Please make questions as *brief* as possible to make sure you get a response. Please be aware that some dilemmas may be posted on social media platforms and cannot be removed on there or Ask Oloni once submitted. Not all questions sent can be answered due to the high amount received daily. For a QUICK response book aprivate callhere
Hiya Oloni, I’ve just come out of a relationship where I was giving everything and getting nothing back I’ve finally let that go and want to get back into dating and meeting new guy’s but don’t know how to?
27. July 2015
I did a whole webinar on this last night. Where were you?
Hey Oloni, I’m 17 and 11 weeks pregnant. After nights of crying I’ve decided to keep my baby. Two days ago I heard my parents talking in their room, my dad was telling my mum that i need to “get rid” of my pregnancy cus both of us cant be pregnant at the same time. Basically ive just found ouut that my mum is also with child . She has no idea i heard that convo, today she told me that I’m moving to Nigeria till i give birth and need to give the child up for adoption. I’m scared oloni i don’t have any family or many trust worthy friends to turn to.
27. July 2015
Oh wow! It sounds as though your mother & father do not want to deal with what they see as shame as you’ll both be having a child around the same time. First thing is first. If you haven’t, tell them you heard the conversation and discuss it. If leaving and giving your child up for adoption is not an option then speak up about it. No one can force you to give up another soul YOU created. You will need a lot of support, so I suggest you try & get as much info from your council as possible and see what help you can get in case things do not work out. If you need to speak more do e-mail me itsoloni@gmail.com
hey i asked you two questions last week and u didnt answer them….why?x
27. July 2015
I can’t answer all questions. If your matter really needs to be solved get a phone call session from my relstionship coaching package. (Click the logo above)
Hi Oloni! I have been having alot of insecurities when it comes to my body lately as its really affecting my sex life. Embarrassing as it sounds i don’t have a clue on lingerie and whatnot but feel like it might help boost my confidence do you know any really affordable places where i could find like lingerie that will help me i.e cover my stomach and what not
25. July 2015
I’ve worked in a lot of lingerie retail stores so I can definitley help. If you want to feel more sexier & hide that area of your body, try popping into Ann Summers. They have a range of great cami pieces or even baby dolls. Pick a colour that compliments you. Add some stockings or pull ups & crotchless knickers then you’re good to go.
Hi Oloni, Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago because of his silly insecurities. He was so insecure with the male attention that i get that he always thought that something is or will happen between me and any male i encounter lool. Based on his past relationships i can definately say his exes are to blame for his insecurity (as they cheated on him numerous times). Anyway a little after he broke up with me he came to apologise for the way he ended things, he asked if we could remain friends which i agreed to as i accepted his apology. We havent really spoken since we decided to stay friends but recently I went out and I posted a pic on social media. Bare in mind we hadnt spoken in a while but he decided to show his appreciation for the way i looked on social media, tbh he could have messaged me or better yet @ me but he decided to post various tweets about how good i looked. ive also ran into a few of his friends lately and it seems he hadnt informed them of our break up which i dont get why. i dont know whether he was just being nice by complimenting me or he has a hidden agenda. i still love him but i dont want to fool myself and start reading into things too deep and end up giving myself false hope. what should i do? and what do u think of his complimentary tweets? xx
25. July 2015
It’s hard to work out why he hasn’t informed his friends. He may not have had the right time to let them know. As for his tweets, that was to get your attention, and look.. It worked. Give it more time, if he wants to make it work. He will pick up the phone.
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