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I’m in love with a man. I am 20 and he is 44. He is not my sugar daddy, we are in a relationship. He looks much younger than he is, but my friends are quite judgemental about it. I don’t know how to tell my family I am dating a man 24 years older than me.
1. August 2015
This is a sticky one as I’ve always felt as though age isn’t always a big deal. However in this scenario the guy you’re dating is much more older & has the life experience you’re only about to learn. He’s a full adult while you’re only becoming one. It makes you think. Is he interested because he knows he can easily impress you? The advice I’d give if you’re 100% sure you’re serious about him is to sit down with your parents and talk to them about it. Explain what you see in him, tell them a bit about him and ask for their support.
Hi Oloni, my partner just told me his got another girl pregnant . His saying he still wants to be with me and I really do love him. What should I do?
29. July 2015
Not be stupid and leave.
Hey Oloni, I’m 2 months pregnant for a guy that I was seeing and he’s recently told me he wants nothing to do with the baby or anything at all, I however am not ready for an abortion. If he doesn’t want anything to do with the baby then that’s ultimately his decision, but I’ve been told it is the nigerian way to go to his parents house and inform them (I’m not nigerian). Since he’s told me he’s not ready to support the child is there still any point in me informing his parents? Or shall I just leave him and his family out of it all? Pls help x
29. July 2015
Culture or not, there’s nothing wrong with you informing his family about your new pregnancy, even if he decides to be there or not. His family have a right to know their son has a child on the way.
oloni im not gonna lie i dunno if im falling in like with this guy because the sex is absolutely 100% A1 or because hes nice and that, coz he is nice lol ? how can i tell? x
29. July 2015
Spend more time with him.
Hi Oloni. I haven’t has sex for some years by choice and recently decided to get back into it with my new partner. It is the most painful thing. This has happened a few times now and we never get past one round because it’s so painful. I have no STI’s or vaginal infections what can I do to make sex more pleasurable? My partner says he understands but slyly I think he thinks I’m not attracted to him or he doesn’t turn me on because of some things he says in passing.
27. July 2015
Try to relax before you go for other rounds. Make sure you’re including foreplay and don’t forger the lube. If you’re still feeling pains go to your clinic assp.
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