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Hey Oloni, I just have a very basic question. Should the guy always iniate the first date and should he also be expected to pay?
20. August 2015
No, women can initiate the first date, but as the guy it’s always a cherry on top if he offers to pay.
Hi oloni . My boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me. I really miss him but the way he started treating me towards the end of the relationship showed that he genuinely didn’t care for me. Should I try to contact him or try to move on? Because he hasn’t tried to contact me but I do miss him. Should I hold out for him or should I try to start moving on and maybe seeing other people when I’m ready?
20. August 2015
You need to realise you can do better and be with someone who cares about you. Be much more stronger and keep yourself busy in order for you to not think about it.
From a ladies point of view, if you’re talking/seeing someone do you think it’s ok to be seeing and sleeping with other people/ex’s?
20. August 2015
If the ex isn’t one who is a friend. You can’t be loyal to someone you’ve had a few dates and cocktails with if you’re not exclusive.
Hey Oloni. Do you believe in second chance? I’m sure you’ve heard of the phrase “don’t run back to the very thing that hurt you”. I’ve been split up from my ex for a while, and I’m a completely new person. But recently me and my ex have been talking again and the love between us never really went away. I know women should never try and change men, but in order for us to possibly see eachother again and see how it goes, should I at least tell him what I want to be different and see what he says, or should I find someone better and get over it?
20. August 2015
It really depends on the circumstances of why you broke up. Can it be resolved? Will it change? There’s nothing wrong with discussing what you want. Do it and see how it goes.
hi oloni, I’ve recently started dating but the problem is my boyfriend is in contact with a lady that used to be his ‘fuck buddy’ he says there’s nothing going on between them and they are only in contact due to business related. I’m uncomfortable about this and I want to tell him to cut ties with her, do you think this is a good idea?
17. August 2015
Eh if this is making you uncomfortable, then she has to go. Express this to him. Their ‘friendship’ can’t be as important as your relationship.
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