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Hello oloni recently my boyfriend of 9 months gave me chlamydia and even though he had the decency to tell me to go to the doctors he says that he was shocked that he got it.I was a virgin before I met him and he wasn’t and he told me that he was messing around with a girl before me but they wasn’t in a relationship and that they were seeing others at the same time.I’m confused because he must of cheated but he’s saying that he didn’t and he must of had it and didn’t know.we’ve had both unprotected and protected sex and I got checked up 5 months into out relationship and I was negative.should I just dump him and leave? 22. August 2015

He’s lying and the results have proven so. I do think you should let him go, he’s cheated and is still beinh dishonest.


Hey oloni… I was with my ex for 3 years and we broke up in January as I cheated on her several times and she obviously had enough it since our break up we do stil talk now and then like what’s up u okay how’s ur day been you know primal conversations.she is has someone else but she never wants to admit it to me,she still has my name tatted on her which I thuaght since the break up she would try and cover it and still has our pictures on her Instagram…yet when I try to ask her to make it work she would say a straight No but she would tell me she misses me will always be her love?a just confuse?shoukd I keep trying or just forget it? 21. August 2015

She clearly misses you, but to miss does not mean you wish to be back with someone again. If you care about her then make it easier for her to move on.


Hey Oloni, I have a question i want to ask but i’m a guy lol, is that still okay ? 21. August 2015

Yeah, of course.


Hi Oloni. My boyfriend randomly disappeared on me for a few months, and so I naturally flipped out once he tried to get back in touch. He merely apologised but didn’t explain why he was absent for so long. Am I owed an explanation? 21. August 2015

If he respects you, he would have given you one. Talk to him and ask what’s up.


Hi oloni, I have recently just started seeing this guy (about a month now). When we see each other, everything is fine and he says how he is interested in pursuing this long term etc. but whenever we away from each other. Texting and communication seems to be non-existence and really boring with loads of one worded answers. I have spoken to him about this but he says he isn’t one into texting. So I’m thinking should I just stop texting him all together cos I’m feeling having boring conversations with him would actually put me off him. Also it seems like I’m the only one that keeps making all the effort like tryna to set up when we can see each other. 21. August 2015

Read this dilemma back to yourself. Can you understand he’s not that interested? Don’t bother yourself with this dude, and meet other guys who wont bore you via texting and will  actually pick up the phone.


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