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Hey Oloni, okay so me and my ex of two years recently spilt up but we have started talking again, hanging out, and even having sex. So much happened in our relationship that the obvious choice decision would be to stay apart but I honestly want to be with him make it work because frankly, the love is still overwhelmingly real for both of us. Do we try to make it work or cut our losses again and move on?
26. August 2015
It depends, have you resolved your past issues? What caused the break up in the first place? If you’re sure it’s worth giving another shot, then discuss it with him.
Hi Oloni. My man of 1 1/2 yrs wouldn’t let me in his house when I tirned up at 3am because he hadnt answered his phone in several hrs, which is not like him. He lives alone & I’m the only person he has who would notice if somethng was really wrong. I was worried about him & couldn’t sleep. When I got there he ignored me for 45mins, then came to the door, wouldn’t let me in & said it was a test of my trust. Do you think he had someome inside? I had to drive home. I was just worried about him. x
26. August 2015
He’s manipulating the situation. He had someone in there…there is no excuse as to why he’d have his girlfriend outside for 45 minutes if was home. I’d pay close attention to this one.
Hey oloni, there was this girl I went out on a date once which went well it for some reason nothing progressed. We still talk today as normal friends but what annoys me is that she will message metro start convo then at some point decide to not reply. And because she’s very good looking I feel she’s moving prestige. Should I cofront her about this?
26. August 2015
And what exactly are you going to say? ‘Hey I know you think you’re cute and everything, but it doesn’t mean you can ignore me.’ – You can’t force her to be interested. If she’s not responding promptly, it’s down to one thing. She’s not that into you.
Hi Oloni, My ex gave me warts, I just found out the strange looking spots I had in my vaginal area is warts. Me and him broke up 8 months ago, but stopped talking a few months ago as his current girlfriend phoned me to let me know he had been lying to me and he has moved on. I don’t know whether I should let them know I have been diagnosed with it & I’m afraid he might not believe me neither since the last time we did have sex was 8 months ago (I haven’t had sex since). And I don’t want to cause drama in his relationship making myself look bitter and wanting to end the relationship, because that’s how made it seem like to his current girlfriend when these times I didn’t know he was seeing anyone. What should I do please ? Let them know or just have my treatment and not say a thing ? Thank You
26. August 2015
You don’t have to speak to him directly and let him know. Instead you can contact a clinic who can take his name and number and inform him. It will be done anonymously, in a sense that they wont say who the person is that gave it to him, but that choice is up to you. Either way, for safety percussions and to keep him from infecting anyone else he must be alerted asap.
I don’t want to have sex until I’m married but do you think that a relationship can work and progress to the stages of marriage without having sex?
26. August 2015
Of course, there are many couples who are celibate and waiting till marriage. It’s all boils down to the two individuals in the relationship and the will power they have.
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