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Hi Oloni, I am with my boyfriend for over a year now. At the start of the relationship he wasn’t upfront about his feelings for me maybe because it wasn’t so strong. This made me worried for a while. But as of late he has been affectionate and open about his feelings. I feel sort of two ways about this. Is he genuine? Why now? Do I enjoy the new found passion for me or do I keep questioning it?
1. October 2015
You’re totally over thinking it, sometimes these things take time. We all move at different paces when it comes to opening up, he’s clearly finally let his guard down and feels more comfortable to do so. My advice? Don’t question it, be happy!
I’m a 20 year old aspiring filmmaker at uni and my boyfriend (just over a year) is 25 and has a part time job in retail. He’s been to jail before and he has no ambition besides staying out. He doesn’t want to progress in his job or to look into a better career path, what do I do???
1. October 2015
You know deep down what you need to do, if he’s shown you he has no ambition, you’re not going in the same direction so cut him loose.
I’ve been speaking to a guy and on the first date he brought me out to dinner , I feel like I’ve led him on and he got ahead of himself by asking me where it’s going to lead to ? Atm I don’t want anything serious I’m just having fun but he said he wanted something serious how do I break him down easily
1. October 2015
If you don’t want anything serious let him know politely. You don’t have to continue seeing him just because you went out. It;s good he;s letting you know he’d like something serous, but he’s moving way too fast.
Hey. I have been chatting to this guys for 6 years now, long distance. We have been friends since primary school. We both agree that we are more than friends. However, he has not suggested that we should move to the next level so ask me to be his girlfriend? What should I do? So confused
1. October 2015
I’m confused, have you seen each other in these 6 years? If not call it quits. You’re wasting your time.
Hi. What are your views on dating a guy who has a baby from a prior relationship? He is the sole carer of that child?
1. October 2015
Unless you’re old enough to have a kid of your own, I don’t always think it’s the greatest idea. But the decision is yours if he’s a good person and treats you right, then go for it.
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