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Hi Oloni. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 5 years now. He’s 21 and I’m 20 and I can’t see myself with another person. I love him so much but the last year I’ve been feeling that all he’s interested in is sex. He used to be romantic, you know the whole date night thing, calling me randomly just to talk to me but now, I feel like we’re just friends with benefits. I’ll call him upset, trying to speak to him about what’s wrong but then he’ll laugh tell me the way I feel is stupid the. Question wether I’m on my period coz apparently that’s the only time a woman can be angry. I honestly just feel like he doesn’t care about me any more. I’ve asked him numerous times if he still wants the relationship and he says yes but I can tell he doesn’t. He’s the only person I’ve been with intimately, the only person I’ve ever loved and I can’t take the way he’s been treating me. I’m starting to think that I’m crazy and stupid and that everything is fine but I can’t shake of the feeling that our relationship is coming to an end. What do I do now? 7. December 2015

You can try having a conversation about how you feel in the relationship instead of asking if he wants to continue on with it. He’s already said yes, so all that’s left is for you to share your worries on the way everything is heading. Try using the examples that you explained to me. If this doesn’t help, perhaps you’re better off alone. Being together for a number of years does not mean anything if you’re unhappy


What can I do too get my boyfriend too start appreciating me, I litrally do so much for him and it’s like he doesn’t see it. Right now my plan is too ignore him but I think that’s a bit petty and can backfire.. What should I say or do 7. December 2015

You can’t force someone to appreciate you, it’s hurtful it’s upsetting, but you can’t. If he doesn’t see your kindness then it’s best to find someone who will.


READ: 9 Things You Should Probably Stop Saying To People In Long-Term Relationships 30. November 2015

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Hi Oloni. So my dilemma is that recently I don’t get to see my bf often. We talk everyday but go like 2 weeks without seeing each other. It’s mostly because of his work, he says he’s always tired or he finishes at some stupid time like 1am. We can see each other on the weekend but even then he always cancels or forgets plans that don’t involve sex. But when we do make plans to have sex he can see me after work/weekends/when he’s tried etc. I’ve tried to bring this up in convo but it always turns into an argument. He says he cares for me and I’m more than sex, but it doesn’t feel like that anymore. We’ve been seeing each other 2 years and it’s ony the past 6 months since we’ve broken up and been on and off that he’s been acting like this. Do you think he wants to be single and have a regular piece of ass. Like am I really he’s girl or just a glorified fuck buddy? 30. November 2015

He’s getting what he can when it’s convenient for him. Let this go.


Hi I was seeing this guy for 6 months and we were getting quite serious but I found out he had a gilfriend should I let the girl know or not tell but I really like him and I’m so confused 30. November 2015

Let that ship sail and stay out of it.


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