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Hey Oloni, me and my bf have been together for a while now and I’ve recently found out he’s been cheating on me. We decided to make it work but I don’t feel sexually attracted to him anymore. I love him but the thought of him and another woman has put me off even wanting to touch him. What do I do? 5. October 2018

You need to pump the breaks on your relationship and ne honest about how you feel bu telling him, exactly what you told me.

There’s a chance you could end up resenting him, if you try to pretend you’re ok. Your feelings are valid, so speak up!

Oloni


Hi Oloni, I can’t lie to you I really really hate sucking dick and I am terrible, however my partner loves this and always wants me to do it, he understands and doesn’t force me and tells me the more I do it the more I’ll like it, Oloni I hate it and it’s almost a chore to do it. How can I overcome this as I want to please my partner 5. October 2018

If you hate it, you hate it. Don’t force it! Find other ways to pleasure him such as hand jobs, and trying new sex positions. Sex shouldn’t feel like a chore, it should be enjoyable for both people involved.

Oloni


Hey oloni, so I have a best friend (girl) and it’s her birthday coming up. We’ve been friends for almost 10+ years so I said to her I would take her to see the new venom film when it comes out.. but my girlfriend doesn’t agree and is saying if I go she might possibly break up with me, baring in mind I go to my bestfriends house sometimes and you would of thought that would be worse right? Am I in the wrong? 4. October 2018

I see why it’d make her uncomfortable. Perhaps this is a step too far for your gf??

Relationships come with boundaries even people in non-monogamous relationships have them. Yes, she might be cool with house visits from time to time, but now she might think you’re going OTT.

She’s given you an ultimatum, so it’s down to you to decide what to do. Talk to her.

Also, does your best friend not have her own love life. Why is she borrowing someone else’s man? Best friend or not. Eurgh!

Oloni


Dear Oloni. I recently hooked up with a Guy cause I was getting frustrated horny, but to my surprise the Dick was so bomb. Please how do I get some more of that Dick, seeing as it was supposed to be a one time thing 4. October 2018

Message him and say, “whats gooooood?’

 

Oloni


Hey Oloni, So the last time I had sex was 3 months ago. I was just super anti coz I got out of a relationship. N I didn’t know how to flirt. I have been actually moving to boys now coz I have been that horny. While learning how to flirting etc. I got myself guy who wants to fuck, he got hotel n everything sorted. Asked him to send a dick pic to see his package and he has uncircumcised penis!? I don’t know if I should be worried, scared, prepared for pain, I’ve never had sex/seen/touched with someone who’s had an uncircumcised penis. I don’t know if I can still use the same technique while giving head, I’m worried about hygiene. I have asked my friends if they been with a guy like that but they haven’t. So I just would like to know if you have any tips for being with someone who’s uncircumcised or should I be worried, and what about it, that’s going to be different ? 4. October 2018

Heya love! Uncircumcised penises are no different to dicks which have the snip. You need to remember that that is their natural state. As for hygiene as long as he takes regular showers, you should be facing any surprises. You oral sex techniques don’t have to change either lol just relax, get some condoms and enjoy.

Oloni


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