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Hi Oloni, my boyfriend has a baby mama. But occasionally she cooks food and calls him over to eat even late in the night. They sometimes go out to party together and when I asked him what’s going on, he said that relationship with the baby mama is good for their son. I am very confused about the whole situation.
29. February 2024
Yeah you either tell him what your boundaries are or leave. I’d suggest the latter, cus if she’s feeding him.. guess what? She’s .. chile.
oloni
I’m in my 30s dating a man who is in his 50s. We are trying to have sex, but his penis is not erecting though he is horny. What can we do about it?
29. February 2024
Tell him to get some medical attention. It’s more common than you’d think.
I have been seeing a guy since the end of last year. We have consistently been in touch since then, meeting up on numerous occasions. However, when I last spoke to him, which was last week, he mentioned he has been busy with work and feeling stressed out. It has now been a week since our last conversation. Should I give him space and hope he will reach out, or do you have any other suggestions?
29. February 2024
Forget him he’s no longer interested
Hi Oloni, last week my boyfriend of 7 years told me he needed to come clean that he’d cheated on me a couple of times in the second year of our relationship. He says as we’re planning our future together it’s fair that I have all the information and he basically begged for my forgiveness and said he had changed. He used to have a drink problem and mental health issues but he’s better now and says it hasn’t happened in years. Do I give him another chance? Other than this our relationship has been amazing
29. February 2024
I think it’s unfair he’s only telling you now. Honestly the choice is yours. Is this something you can see yourself working through with him or will it be hard? Give yourself time to think but don’t let his begging be a deciding factor
He wants me to eat his ass but doesn’t wanna shave it. Wtf! Guys are significantly hairier than girls and I think it’s fair considering it’s an asshole. He keeps bugging me but I refuse until he does. Am I being extra?
29. February 2024
Why would you even want to eat ass in the first place? Now he doesn’t even wanna prep. If he’s not listening he’s harassing.
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