Ask Oloni: “My Boyfriend Spent New Years With Another Woman, After I Asked To Spend It With Him”
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All dilemmas have been sent from real people and taken from www.simplyoloni.com/ask but answered in this feature
I’ll be real with you, he probably slept with this girl and cheated, you know it and I know it. His intentions are very obvious and I think that due to your love goggles, you’re unable to see it, for what it clearly is, but that’s fine… that’s what I’m here for.
Tell him what you saw and confron him asap. Regardless of what he says, I thik you should dump him, the fact he was prepared to be with another girl in such a setting and on that type of day, just shows he’s not prepared to be exclusive to you.
He’s an asshole.
Hey Oloni, my bf makes me buy the condoms because I’m the one who said we should use them. I actually handle everything to do with our sex life being safe/ preventing pregnancy and I feel like he does nothing. He says if it’s what I want then I should handle it. We also had an argument over going to the clinic for a fever all check as he thinks I’m now accusing him of something. Sigh, I just don’t know how to engage him more in these things, any tips? – Anonymous
Also going to the clinic shouldn’t be a taboo, what’s his problem? Why are you with him?